After a long time in a relationship, couples settled into a routine, and the excitement of being together vanishes. A lack of display of affection, even a calm and happy relationship can become a burden for both.
Surprises instill romance, beauty, excitement and strength in your relationship. Although girls want a man to take the initiative, it’s a misconception that only girls dream of getting surprises. Men, too, want special attention. A person who agrees to share his life, his happiness, his fears, his secrets, his miseries with you, is special. Celebrate that special person, celebrate love, celebrate each other, celebrate relations and celebrate days. Eventually, life will start celebrating you. If your partner expects some romantic surprises, and you, being a awfully boring person, get irritated by such demands, then you need to change this attitude. It should not be considered duty, rather should be accepted as a norm of being in a relationship.
These acts are not only a great way to show your feelings, but are a lot of fun too. Here are the top ten romantic things that you can do to surprise your other half.
10. Give a Massage
A hectic and stressful routine can make anyone feel too exhausted. Giving a massage can be considered a means of having a smooth communication with each other. Pamper them with a mild body massage. This lovely act will be highly appreciated. The best part is that you can get time to talk to each other, in a good mood.
9. Pack Lunch
Pack lunch for them in a box and put a note saying “Missing you”. When they will open the lunch box after a hard work routine, this note will take away all the tediousness and will refresh them. You can try different messages and maybe make heart shaped food.
8. Hide Love Messages
Hide love messages in different places where your partner can find them easily, but unexpectedly. You can put notes in their purse, wallet, coat pocket, drawer or in the car. Be creative and try the same with gifts and flowers. Let them find your surprises on thier own.
7. Dedicate Songs
Dedicate or sing a song for your partner during a dinner at a restaurant. Expressing your love in front of so many people always inspires the person in your life. But be careful; know your partner well. Some people find public displays of affection to be a huge turn off.
6. Pay Unexpected Visits
Visit him when it is least expected. A small visit at odd hours would be more exciting. Show up at their workplace. Bring a special meal for them. Show them that you just “dropped by” because you missed them.
5. Send Gifts
Buy different gifts and send each of them from a different courier services to their workplace. Each gift will reach your partner at a different time on the same day. If you are too busy with your work, or are unsure about their choice, leave an envelope with some money and a note at home. The note can say “I want to see a ring of your choice in your hand” or something similar, as per your desired gift.
4. Make a Photo Album
Compile pictures of the two of you and create a photo album. Caption each photo that expresses your passionate feelings, as love is incomplete until it has been expressed. Send it to your partner. It will show them how much the memories that you remembered, shared and recorded mean to you.
3. Plan a Trip
Plan a trip and surprise your partner. Pick a place where they have always wanted to go. Complete all the arrangements yourself and just ask them to meet you at a spot, or at a spot from where you would escort them to that place yourself. To spice things up, you can draft up a scavenger hunt to make them guess where they can meet you.
2. Moonlight Dinner
Candle light dinners are always romantic. You can also have dinner under the full moon. Arrange a seating for two at a private place, on the beach or on your roof top. Cook or order food with desert. Take your partner there blind folded and enjoy a romantic dinner.
1. Hide Rose Petals Under Sun Visor
Hide rose petals under sun visor of your car. When your partner is sitting on the passenger seat, make them conscious about something on her face. Suggest that they could use the mirror on the visor. As they pull it down, there will be a shower of rose petals on them. It would be such a sweet gesture.